As LGBTQ individuals are more and more accepted in society, many of the sexual issues they face have become indistinguishable from those facing all individuals. But unfortunately, prejudice and discrimination against LGBTQ individuals and couples still exist and can complicate the development of healthy sexual expression and relationships. Thus, some issues remain unique to LGBTQ population and require a therapeutic approach that is sensitive to their life experience and needs.

Finding a qualified professional who is familiar with the unique issues faced by the LGBTQ community, and who is open about discussing all sexual matters without judgement, is critical to helping LGBTQ individuals and couples learn the skills to enjoy positive sexual relationships. I provide a welcoming nonjudgmental space where all can feel comfortable sharing their sexual experiences and concerns.

Here are some of the reasons you may want my help.

Confusion over sexual orientation

Knowing oneself sexually isn’t a given for everyone. And growing up in traditional households or religious communities may not have provided you with a context or the support needed for clarifying your sexual orientation.

Lack of sexual self-awareness

Confusion or inner conflict over one’s orientation or identity can keep someone from exploring sex and their sexuality with oneself and others. You may need guidance in discovering what excites you sexually and learn how to assert your needs and boundaries with sexual and romantic partners.

Sexual shame

Early in their development, LGBTQ individuals can be taught that their fantasies and desires are wrong or unnatural which can have lingering effects on their sexuality long after they’ve acknowledged and accepted their sexual orientation or identity. These shame-inducing beliefs can be challenging to get rid of and may be keeping you today from desiring and enjoying sex fully.

Discomfort with emotional and physical intimacy

Years of concealing one’s sexual orientation or gender identity can make it difficult for LGBTQ individuals to be emotionally open and vulnerable with partners. This discomfort with emotional intimacy may be affecting your ability to enjoy physical closeness and establish healthy sexual relationships.